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conversation pit at the Dune House. We spent a huge part of our time sat in it drinking cocktails.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-04-18T19:15:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/01/my-daughter-says-shes-not-inviting-us-for-christmas-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-16T18:10:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/08/my-ex-husbands-father-has-changed-his-will-in-favour-of-a-woman-who-we-fear-is-exploiting-him-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-16T18:05:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2013/01/05/i-sometimes-say-nasty-things-to-my-little-girl-i-dont-mean-to-but-cant-help-it-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-16T18:02:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1999/02/06/aye-aye-i-thought-were-going-to-jack-up-published-by-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-12T15:10:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1999/06/20/isnt-a-camera-enough-interview-with-jason-brooks-and-chuck-close-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-09T11:49:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/09/10/its-time-to-reclaim-the-m-word-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-07T16:44:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2001/05/14/oooh-suit-you-for-the-pools-sir-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-05T19:29:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/15/making-sense-of-a-family-tragedy-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-05T17:03:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1998/12/28/aliza-reger-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/1998/12/aliza-portrait.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Aliza Portrait</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-05T16:36:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1999/05/16/interiors-catches-worth-landing-anissa-helou-published-in-the-independent-on-sunday/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/1999/05/anissa-in-kitchen.jpg</image:loc><image:title>anissa in kitchen</image:title><image:caption>Anissa in her new, super pared down kitchen in Shoreditch.  </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-04T20:12:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/03/01/my-mothers-suitcase-published-in-national-geographic-traveller/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/sophiawith-suitcase.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sophiawith suitcase</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/sophialorensuitcase.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sophia+loren+suitcase</image:title><image:caption>Italian women know how to pack.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-04T12:25:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/15/my-sons-grandmother-gave-him-some-chocolate-and-told-him-to-lie-about-it-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-04T12:22:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/08/06/childs-play-for-adults-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-04T08:55:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/05/08/when-breast-is-worst-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-04T08:53:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/11/10/twenty-winks-its-never-big-or-clever-to-cut-back-on-sleep-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/audrey-hepburn-in-the-fil-002.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Audrey-Hepburn-in-the-fil-002</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-04T08:49:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/12/09/know-your-cod-and-plaice-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-04T08:44:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/22/i-told-my-husband-he-couldnt-cross-dress-anymore-now-he-wont-have-sex-with-me-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-03-04T08:33:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/07/30/socks-appeal-published-by-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T16:10:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/10/21/in-defence-of-the-tie-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T16:03:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/11/01/a-large-scale-disaster-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T15:58:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/08/09/dont-make-me-laugh-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T15:54:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/05/28/social-kissing-needs-guidelines-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T15:50:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/03/22/plenty-more-fish-in-the-sea-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-26T15:44:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2007/04/16/the-queen-mother-taught-me-how-to-sew-beautifully-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/hartnell.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hartnell</image:title><image:caption>I'm not in this picture. But I might have been.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-22T07:56:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/02/08/when-i-sewed-the-royal-hem-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/queenmumharry.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kosty555.info</image:title><image:caption>See the Queen Mum? I stitched her hem and prepared it for pleating. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-22T07:51:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2013/02/21/a-trip-to-the-ickworth-hotel-published-in-national-geographic-traveller/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_8977.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_8977</image:title><image:caption>Ickworth estate. I took this as I was about to go for my early morning run.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ickworth-aerial-view.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>An aerial view of Ickworth House. The actual hotel is to the side.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-21T12:09:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/12/29/my-daughter-has-a-phobia-of-being-sick-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-19T09:33:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/08/10/champagne-and-pimms-prove-a-bigger-pull-than-a-forgotten-river-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-12T11:07:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1999/01/03/in-love-with-my-curves-published-in-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/sophiainacorset.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sophiainacorset</image:title><image:caption>Sophia Loren, not me, in a corset.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-12T10:25:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/09/17/so-youre-good-at-exams-so-what/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T20:27:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/11/26/the-secret-to-being-a-good-parent-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/kid-smoking.jpg</image:loc><image:title>kid-smoking</image:title><image:caption>The secret to being a good parent is more than just not letting them smoke folks.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-11T20:24:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2001/04/30/beware-the-hair-that-rises-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:55:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2001/05/21/when-a-gentlemans-skin-is-too-pale-election-2001-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:52:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2001/04/23/the-military-invades-the-catwalk-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:39:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2000/12/04/at-least-they-could-polish-their-shoes-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:35:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2000/09/11/how-new-labour-revealed-ladies-legs-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:32:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2000/02/19/do-writers-really-need-newspapers-published-in-the-new-statesman/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-11T17:19:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/05/22/fatty-acids-food-for-thought-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-10T19:37:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2003/06/30/let-us-eat-cake-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-10T19:28:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/03/13/never-mind-the-calories-think-low-gi-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-10T19:25:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1998/11/22/bananas-about-pyjamas-published-in-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/rear-window-negligee.jpg</image:loc><image:title>rear-window-negligee</image:title><image:caption>Grace Kelly in Rear Window, getting ready for a sleep over with James Stewart.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-10T19:03:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1996/10/27/dont-say-its-only-a-spider-published-in-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-10T18:29:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2002/03/10/its-dress-down-every-day-in-britain-published-in-the-observer/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-10T18:24:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2001/10/18/the-most-dangerous-trousers-in-the-world-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2001/10/casual-marilyn-monroe.jpg</image:loc><image:title>casual-marilyn-monroe</image:title><image:caption>I'll bet she never wore elasticated waist pants.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/bodenshagpants.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bodenshagpants</image:title><image:caption>Boden pull on pants. Secretly called 'shag pants' by Boden. Dangerous pants.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-10T18:21:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2007/10/25/rod-i-salute-your-train-set-published-in-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/frank-sinatra.jpg</image:loc><image:title>frank-sinatra</image:title><image:caption>Frank Sinatra: You wanna tell him model railways aren't cool?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-10T10:08:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/06/02/amo-amas-i-love-a-lass-pub-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2004/06/attacusfinch.jpg</image:loc><image:title>attacusfinch</image:title><image:caption>What has Gregory Peck got to do with Latin? Nothing. But imagine if he'd been your teacher.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-09T14:48:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/03/06/were-making-it-easier-for-violent-men-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-09T13:39:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/07/07/the-taste-of-al-fresco-does-food-taste-better-outdoors-intelligent-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/picnic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>picnic</image:title><image:caption>Eating outside is best done when it's impromptu.
Photo: Annalisa Barbieri ©</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/1950s-picnic-photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1950s-picnic-photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-07T14:29:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2008/06/26/papa-was-an-ice-cream-maker/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ice-cream-memoir-1-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ice cream Memoir-1 copy</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-07T14:27:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/01/19/rebellious-children-at-least-youre-doing-something-right-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/the-von-trapp-children.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The-Von-Trapp-Children</image:title><image:caption>Remember the von Trapps? Came a time they didn't respond to the whistle anymore and ended up wearing the curtains.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-07T13:59:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2012/01/31/a-child-will-learn-nothing-from-being-hit-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/golden_snub-nosed_monkeys_female-baby-wiki.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Golden_Snub-nosed_Monkeys,_female baby wiki</image:title><image:caption>Be the sort of adult you'd like your child to grow up to be.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-07T13:52:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2000/12/03/taking-the-royal-canadian-pacific-train-from-banff-springs-to-san-francisco-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2000/12/011_canadaroyalcanadian.jpg</image:loc><image:title>011_canadaroyalcanadian</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-06T23:22:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1998/02/01/getting-hooked-on-the-sport-of-queens-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/1998/02/georginaballantine.jpg</image:loc><image:title>georginaballantine</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-06T23:20:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2000/08/14/adultery-al-dente-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-06T23:16:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2008/10/18/windows-of-the-mind-the-guardian/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/main-box-with-table.jpg</image:loc><image:caption>My old flat.
Architect: Simon Conder.
Photo: Peter Warren.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-06T22:18:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/04/11/jean-liedloff-author-of-the-continuum-concept-obituary-the-guardian/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-06T12:55:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1996/03/03/when-skirts-were-full-and-women-were-furious-the-independent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/1996/03/new-look.jpg</image:loc><image:title>new look</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-05T22:55:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/04/15/this-sat-nav-of-the-labour-ward-is-driving-us-the-wrong-way-the-guardian-15-april-2011/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T21:28:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/07/16/expectant-mothers-need-facts-not-fear-hospital-vs-home-birth-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T21:27:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1998/08/23/big-fish-in-a-very-big-sea-marlin-fishing-in-madeira-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T21:19:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2004/06/02/it-takes-practice-to-be-this-imperfect-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T20:13:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2009/02/12/waiting-for-baby-new-statesman-12th-february-2009/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/waiting-for-baby.jpg</image:loc><image:title>waiting for baby</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-02-05T19:48:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2008/02/08/let-the-new-knowledge-in/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T19:24:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/05/20/black-friday-for-catholics-the-guardian-friday-20th-may-2011/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T19:22:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/2011/03/02/discard-this-common-fisheries-policy-and-stop-this-waste-the-guardian-2-march-2011/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T19:21:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com/1997/05/11/monica-zipper-the-independent/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-05T19:20:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://annalisabarbieri.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2021-05-14T13:41:18+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
