My brother bullied me, which has had a lifelong impact. Can I build bridges with him now?
Dear Annalisa, When I was a child I was bullied by my older brother. I am 41 now and I think this has really affected me throughout…
My friend ranks his friendships in a league table – and it worries me
Dear Annalisa, Over a few drinks, a good friend of mine recently let slip that he keeps a spreadsheet of his friends, which he uses to rank them…
Should my partner and I share our love letters from previous relationships with our children?
Dear Annalisa, We are in our mid-80s and have been together for 12 years. Our relationship journeys to our meeting point were utterly different. My partner has two marriages behind her…
How can I stop my dad watching porn on his phone at home?
Dear Annalisa, I’m an adult living at home with my parents for financial reasons; they are in their late 60s/early 70s. My father has been watching pornography in…
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