I live with a younger man who denies our sexual history
Dear Annalisa, I met “Jon” (not his real name) eight years ago when I was 59 and he was 22. He actually cruised me on a…
I’ve gone off sex since our child was born, and fear this will hurt our marriage
Dear Annalisa, My daughter is 15 months old, and since I gave birth, my libido has been very low. Sex is the last thing on my mind, which…
My husband never wants sex and doesn’t even cuddle me. I yearn for love or affection. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My husband and I are in our mid-50s and have been together for 30 years. I cannot remember the last time we had sex –…
I’m anxious about having sex with new women. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa I’m a divorced man of 56. I’ve been on my own for two years and am only now dipping my toe back in the…
I’m a lesbian in a great relationship but obsessed with the idea of sex with other women. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa I am a woman of 33 and have been in a relationship with another woman for eight years. Our relationship is great. She is…
My husband has a low libido but I want a full sex life. The Guardian
Dear Annalisa I am 43 and have been with my husband since I was 18. We have two primary-age children. Since the birth of our youngest,…
My husband was unfaithful and lied about it for years. The Guardian
Dear Annalisa We have been married for nearly 20 years. There have been ups and downs, but we enjoy each other’s company, have two wonderful children…
I caught my husband watching porn – I’m shocked. The Guardian
Dear Annalisa My husband and I are in our early 60s. We have been married for more than 30 years and are quite happy together, other…
“I told my husband he couldn’t cross dress anymore. Now he avoids sex.” Published in The Guardian
Dear Annalisa I am 44 and have been married for 12 years. We have a daughter and my husband is a devoted father. A few months…
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