My friend only ever wants to talk about herself. Should I cut her off?
I have been friends with a woman for more than 20 years, who has overcome many challenges, which I admire. However, she’s constantly blindsided by people. Her husband left…
My friends keep leaving me out, but don’t like it if I do the same to them
I’m 17 and have just gone into my final year at school. Since I started secondary school, I’ve had pretty much the same friendship group: B, C and…
One of my friends at school has turned toxic. How do I discuss it with her?
I started high school last year with some friends I’ve known for a long time. One of those friends has started to act toxically with other people. I have been distancing…
I’m in my 20s with lots of online friends, but can’t seem to connect IRL
Dear Annalisa, A couple of years ago, I moved to a new city. The pandemic put my university plans permanently on hold, and I’ve recently started working fulltime. I built up…
I’m in my 30s and own my home. How can I share my good fortune with friends?
Dear Annalisa, I’m in the fortunate position of owning my own home and some land without a mortgage (in a very affordable and somewhat remote area), and…
My daughter prefers an exclusive friendship with one other girl. The Guardian
Dear Annalisa My daughter is having trouble with friends at school. She is in year 3 and obsessed with one girl. She is not interested in…
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