My dad is cross-dressing and Mum is bitter. What can I do to help? The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa I am in my 30s, an only child, married with one child and another on the way. I see my parents once or twice…
My brother is a hypochondriac who believes he is dying but won’t see a doctor. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My brother is 52. He has not been to a doctor in 20 years and has some health issues that he won’t address because…
I’m anxious about having sex with new women. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa I’m a divorced man of 56. I’ve been on my own for two years and am only now dipping my toe back in the…
My overbearing, self-centred father wants to visit me – I can’t face it. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My 83-year-old father is a hoarder and a narcissist; he will talk without pause about people or subjects that are only of interest to…
My father killed himself and it has left me struggling. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa I am in my 30s and have suffered since my teens from occasional bouts of severe depression during which I have suicidal thoughts. I…
I’m grieving the loss of my parents and my youth. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My father died three years ago after a long and steady decline into dementia, over many years. My 89-year-old mother now has dementia and…
My father wants to be buried with my mother in their garden, but the neighbours object. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My mother died in 2009. She intended her body to be used for medical science, but an unexpected problem made this impossible and funeral…
How do I stop my dad telling me intimate details of his sex life? The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa How do I tell my father in a way he will understand that I don’t want to know the details of his love life?…
My mother has secret children from her first marriage. The Guardian.
Dear Annalisa My mother was 18 when she married her first husband. She got married to get away from her parents, who were loving, but rather…
I’m married and in my 60s, but I’ve fallen in love with a younger man. The Guardian
Dear Annalisa I am in my early 60s, long married. We are not the greatest love match but have come this far. We have areas of…
Annalisa Barbieri 
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