My husband wants a threesome. I don’t. What can I do?
Dear Annalisa, I’ve been married for 11 years and we have two happy boys; it has been amazing. But my husband has now told me he wants a threesome. I am really…
My partner keeps telling me I’m fat. Is it really for my own sake?
Dear Annalisa, I am a 30-year-old woman and for the past 10 years I’ve been in a relationship with a man 30 years older. I was much thinner when…
I helped my husband overcome his issues – but now I don’t want to have sex with him
Dear Annalisa, I feel stuck. I have been in a loving, happy relationship with my gorgeous, sexy husband for 12 years, and have two children. Our…
How can I stop obsessing about my fiance’s ex-girlfriend?
Dear Annalisa, My fiance and I have been together for 18 months, but we haven’t seen each other for almost a year due to Covid restrictions. He…
I’ve been with my girlfriend for six months. Is it too soon to have a child?
Dear Annalisa, Since I started dating my girlfriend six months ago, I’ve had this feeling that something just fits, in a way I’ve never felt before.…
Gifts from my partner’s mother have strings attached. How do I stop her?
Dear Annalisa, I’m struggling with the avalanche of presents my partner’s mother sends: expensive gifts, often in duplicate and triplicate. I’ve thanked her and tried to say that…
My best friend stopped talking to me when my parents died. Will I ever get over it?
Dear Annalisa, Some years ago, my father died suddenly and unexpectedly. At the same time, my mother was very ill. I called my best friend of two decades,…
My partner wants us to have kinky sex, but I find it traumatic
Dear Annalisa, I am in my late 20s, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years. I love him dearly and don’t want to lose him.…
Is my marriage over, or am I just exhausted from caring for my mother?
Dear Annalisa, My mother has life-limiting health problems. I have one sibling and between us we do our best to care for her. We pay for…
My mum lied to me about having an affair. How can I trust her?
Dear Annalisa, I am 29. When I was nine, I found a letter addressed to a man’s name I didn’t recognise. My parents were married. When…
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