My elderly mother has never had an orgasm. Is it too late for her to try?
My 83-year-old mother recently confessed to me that she has never had an orgasm. My father has a terminal illness and, realistically, won’t be with us much…
I used to be an escort, and a former client wants to be friends. What should I do?
Until four years ago, I was a sex worker – specifically, a high-end escort. In my experience, when clients treat you with respect and understand the boundaries, it’s possible to form a relationship not unlike that…
My partner wants an open relationship, but is also jealous of my friendships with women
Dear Annalisa, My partner and I have been in a relationship for many years, have a child together, and have had our ups and downs along…
My husband is unfaithful and wants an open relationship. Is it time for us to split?
Dear Annalisa, We are gay men in our mid 40s, who have been together 20 years. From the outside, we have a fantastic life: very well-paid,…
My best friend and I disagreed over talking about sex – now she’s no longer speaking to me
Dear Annalisa, I’m having a problem with my closest friend, who is refusing to speak to me. We disagree on how acceptable it is to talk about…
I live with a younger man who denies our sexual history
Dear Annalisa, I met “Jon” (not his real name) eight years ago when I was 59 and he was 22. He actually cruised me on a…
I’ve gone off sex since our child was born, and fear this will hurt our marriage
Dear Annalisa, My daughter is 15 months old, and since I gave birth, my libido has been very low. Sex is the last thing on my mind, which…
I am a virgin at 26, and I worry future partners will scorn me
Dear Annalisa, A friendship with a new co-worker is steadily blossoming into a romance, which is bringing me much joy. The only issue is that, because of a…
My husband wants a threesome. I don’t. What can I do?
Dear Annalisa, I’ve been married for 11 years and we have two happy boys; it has been amazing. But my husband has now told me he wants a threesome. I am really…
I helped my husband overcome his issues – but now I don’t want to have sex with him
Dear Annalisa, I feel stuck. I have been in a loving, happy relationship with my gorgeous, sexy husband for 12 years, and have two children. Our…
Annalisa Barbieri 
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